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Post by Roshan on Jun 15, 2021 8:24:29 GMT -5
Journalist Bari Weiss (the girl) seems like a pretty classic midstream so/sx, but on the social side of the middle of the spectrum so 'airier' than some midstreams and not overtly erotic, but just...attractive and full of life. She is also 'soft', as jastyne said about so/sx. Cross-pollinating here with Rogan like a 'little butterfly'. Please like if you agree; if you don't--or have other things to add--please comment. Amy , anthony , vincent , winter , anybody...
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Post by winter on Jun 15, 2021 10:20:26 GMT -5
Yeah I mostly see social with her whereas some midstream social sexuals almost feel like so/SX or high social second
The conversation is really locked in, they’re really listening to each other and addressing things ‘correctly’ in the way I’ve seen socials do…but there’s still more bounce? So I would have thought sosx most likely but but wouldn’t have necessarily got the range right.
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Post by Roshan on Jun 15, 2021 12:35:34 GMT -5
I would have thought sosx most likely but but wouldn’t have necessarily got the range right. Well, it's not like the range is etched in stone. This is a thread for discussion and exploration. Atm I personally would definitely say Bari is very strong social, but I would still put her in the midstream range. To me, Bari seems like a 'hot little number', the kind that gets the guys because the girls don't realize what she's doing behind the glasses .
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Post by vincent on Jun 15, 2021 12:47:24 GMT -5
To me, Bari seems like a 'hot little number', the kind that gets the guys because the girls don't realize what she's doing behind the glasses .
Yes, that sounds exactly right to me.
The sx is there, no sign it's lacking or low, just not overtly there. High social side of midstream so/sx makes sense to me.
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Post by Roshan on Jun 15, 2021 12:49:49 GMT -5
Also Dr./Nurse Bari is the one that suddenly the venerable married surgeon has a wild urge to shag in the broom closet after he loses a patient in OR.
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Post by Roshan on Jun 15, 2021 12:51:47 GMT -5
Just so unselfconsciously full of life..
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Post by anthony on Jun 15, 2021 14:12:05 GMT -5
To me, Bari seems like a 'hot little number', the kind that gets the guys because the girls don't realize what she's doing behind the glasses . I'm not sure I see this, but I wouldn't really be surprised if you were right. I agree with midstream So/Sx but closer to the social side of the stream. She seems like she almost forgets that her Sx even exists, but as you said, is "so unselfconsciously full of life" that it still energetically seeps out...
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Post by Roshan on Jun 15, 2021 15:44:20 GMT -5
Now Luke Rudkowski, on the other hand, is someone I think of as SO/sx. But you have to be careful with him because he's a screamingly obvious 7w6 'in the Six space' imo, triple positive to boot, so by type (in contrast to instinct) he starts off with the most 'electric', ungrounded, amped-up energy (except for some Fives @ 7 and then only sometimes). So Luke isn't particularly less 'bouncy' than Bari Weiss; in fact he's often more. But what he has that Bari doesn't is a pure, almost virginal vibe. (Bari may seem carefree, even a bit innocent, but it's impossible to imagine her as a church icon under any circumstances). So lotta sun and wind and lotta 7 for Luke, lotta enthusiasm, but low on the actual sx. Especially when you consider he's almost certainly sx 2 second and it may be 2w3, not 2w1. Anyway that's how I see him: triple positive SO/sx 7w6. Like if you agree, and/or thoughts?
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Post by Roshan on Jun 15, 2021 15:54:51 GMT -5
The question also arises: would an SO/sx be less bouncy than an so/sx midstream? so/sx stacking in general ( we really have to decide how to distinguish notation here ) is like sunlight and air. But the heat comes from the sx, the breeze comes from the soc. And as we know sx is 'intense', focused (though often in an idiosyncratic or, to some, unsettling way). So by one perspective we should expect SO/sx to be MORE 'bouncy' (airy) than the midstream...at least until it gets SO low sx that it starts to meld into the sx lasts. Again, we are conceptualizing spectrums here, and nothing is etched in stone. Certainly nothing about the nuances is.
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Post by Roshan on Jun 15, 2021 16:01:48 GMT -5
So here is a video I pretty arbitrarily plucked of him and Tim Pool, and I think you can see this pure, virginal low sx quality, but he does not have, or imo even really evoke, the sober gravitas of so/sp. (No need to watch the whole thing right now, I haven't).
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Post by Roshan on Jun 15, 2021 16:03:58 GMT -5
As to the possibility of sp/SO, no, he is not sp first. Here, there, everywhere. All day every day. Endless Speedy Gonzales. As a cursory glance here will tell you. (But don't confuse him with the other guy here).
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Post by Roshan on Jun 15, 2021 16:08:51 GMT -5
Another thing you can notice just from the 'thumbnails' (pretty big thumbs there) is the difference between Bari's eyes and Luke's. Luke is double head lead while Bari may not even be a head type lead but see how much more laser-focused Bari's eyes are while Luke's are sort of 'tethered to the ether'? Amy , anthony anthony, jastyne , vincent vincent, winter , anybody...please have a look at the Luke videos (no need whatsoever to watch everything) and see if you agree that he's SO/sx. If yes, like this post; if not or you have other comments, post. Thanks.
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Post by winter on Jun 18, 2021 4:20:00 GMT -5
To me, Bari seems like a 'hot little number', the kind that gets the guys because the girls don't realize what she's doing behind the glasses . I'm not sure I see this, but I wouldn't really be surprised if you were right. I agree with midstream So/Sx but closer to the social side of the stream. She seems like she almost forgets that her Sx even exists, but as you said, is "so unselfconsciously full of life" that it still energetically seeps out... That’s what I was seeing too. I still agree midstream is most likely but it’s almost like the sx dips out for her and she’s laser focused on the social part and almost, turns round to pick it up.
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Post by Roshan on Jun 18, 2021 6:29:20 GMT -5
Yeah, well, Bari's always focusing on something. The thing about a midstream instinct is that it's just there, it's available to use or not. Its needs are easily satisfied, including by abstaining when expedient--the instinct is easily deployed or ignored, often unconsciously. Because of this, midstream so/sx females will often be the ones who 'get the guy'. They seem approachable, guys don't feel threatened by them, so these women can wind up with a larger pool of actual 'suitors'. And since they're not obsessed with their own sx, they will tend to pick someone who's reliable (whence common hunk with 'plain' woman phenomenon). winter , @world
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Post by Roshan on Jun 18, 2021 6:34:12 GMT -5
This social-slanted midstream so/sx is the girl you never had a problem letting into your couple life because she 'wasn't competition'. The girl you knew could be 'friends with both of you'. And then when you broke up, she was right there, good friend that she is, to comfort both of you--separately.
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